Is being a work at home mom really worth it?

The past two months have been stressful, to say the least.pinterest image

Lorelei came down with bronchitis, our extended family faced an unforeseen and heartbreaking tragedy and we all got a dose of the stomach virus.

In the midst of it all, I had Valentine’s Day and wedding Etsy orders to ship, five custom birthday invitations to design and two huge newsletters on tight deadlines for agriculture clients.

Its times like this that make me question being a “work at home mom.”

Times when I’m running on fumes and barely have time to eat, let alone work or sleep.

Times when meeting deadline means working until 2 a.m. and dosing off in the recliner during 7 a.m. episodes of The Cat in the Hat.

Being a work at home mom (WAHM) is hard. Very hard.

If anyone tells you otherwise they’re lying to you and themselves.

Being a WAHM means choosing between blow drying your hair or using that extra 15 minutes of nap time to work.

It means becoming best friends with your crockpot and keeping frozen pizzas on hand for days when a client has a crisis.

Its learning to type while holding a sleeping baby and wearing out the springs on your desk chair from using it as a rocker.

While other moms enjoy a glass of wine after their kids are in bed, I’m brewing a fresh pot of coffee so I can go back to work.

Its responding to emails from your phone while waiting on your stubborn toddler to finish eating her peas.

Being a mom is a huge lesson in patience. Being a WAHM takes it to a new level.

Before she could even crawl, Lorelei started emptying and “reorganizing” my desk drawers.

A month ago she grabbed my sketchbook and scribbled all over a sketch I was going to send a client that evening.

I still have to make sure that sticky notes stay out of her reach or she’ll peel them off of my desk and hide them in her toy boxes.

So often I find myself whispering “this is her house just as much as its your office” and summoning every ounce of patience I posses to keep from overreacting.

It usually works. When it doesn’t, there’s the overwhelming and all too familiar feeling of “mom guilt.”

You see, “mom guilt” and I are on a first name basis.

When things are stressful, the “mom guilt” kicks in and I feel like I’m not giving enough of my attention to my daughter or my husband (let alone housework!)

Then “small business owner guilt” kicks in and I feel like I’m not giving enough to my clients. (Yes, “small business owner guilt” is a thing, ask anyone who owns their own business!)

Next thing I know, I’ve eaten half a sleeve of Thin Mints and I’ve beaten myself up so much that I wonder if its even worth it.

So this post is for me, and every other WAHM asking herself the same question.

This is your reminder: Yes, it is worth it.

It might not always feel like its worth it.

It might not always look like its worth it.

It will be hard and exhausting and your friends probably won’t understand but it WILL be worth it.

Because at the end of the day, being a WAHM is making me the best mom I can be.

Being a WAHM means I can clear my work schedule to spend an entire day with our family.

It means that my daughter won’t see a stereotype of what a “working mom” looks like. She’ll watch me curl my hair and slide on my heels for a client event one day and then see me crank out a huge design project in my t-shirt and yoga pants the next.

She sees me make the most of every spare moment. Whether that means squeezing in reading a book while photo files copy or having a mini-dance party while exporting videos.

She is watching her father and I work as a team in every possible way, from folding laundry to managing a business.

I’m teaching my daughter that if you have two dreams, they are both worth fighting for.

I’m showing her that being a woman and a mother doesn’t make you any less of an entrepreneur.

Maybe most importantly of all, I’m teaching her to be her own kind of mom.

There will always be “mom guilt.”

There will always be generations that don’t understand your choices and friends who lead completely different lives.

There’s no right answer. No perfect formula. What works for one mom won’t work for another.

This is the kind of mom I was meant to be. Its time I start reminding myself of that.

 

Why we bring our kids to agriculture conferences

This time of year is known as “conference season” for many of us in the agriculture industry.

If you’ve spent any time at agriculture conferences, you’ll notice one thing is different from a lot of other conventions and trade shows – there are children, and lots of them.

Lorelei and I at the 2014 Ky. Pork Producers Annual Meeting.

Lorelei and I at the 2014 Ky. Pork Producers Annual Meeting.

96% of American farms are family owned and operated.

Farm families are known for doing everything as a family, from harvesting crops to feeding livestock. Attending conferences is no different.

When I was growing up, all of the Laurent kids tagged a long with my dad to the Kentucky Pork Producers Annual Meeting every year.

We played with the other farm kids shared coloring books and toy tractors. We got excited hearing the ring men hoop and holler at the scholarship auction and cut a rug right along with all the grown ups at the dance.

Today, Lorelei tags along with me when I work at agriculture meetings and conferences throughout the year.

As a mom, I can now see just how wonderful an opportunity my parents gave me by bringing us along to farm conferences.

My non-ag clients are often surprised to learn that I bring my toddler with me to so many events. Since I grew up in ag, I didn’t realize just how unique that was.

So after explaining so many times to non-ag friends and clients, I decided to put it all in one post.

Here’s why we bring our kids to ag conferences:

Learning never ends.

If you had asked 6 year old Celeste who was the world’s leading expert on beef cattle, I wouldn’t have thought twice about my answer: my dad.

Part of that was because I was a child and as far as I was concerned my parents were perfect (except when I was in trouble). The other part was that my dad is an Extension Associate. His job is to help other producers learn how to raise cattle more safely, humanely and efficiently. In my mind, that meant he must know everything!

By attending ag conferences with my dad, I watched him learn.

I watched him ask questions and discuss issues with other farmers. When we came home, I was there to watch him implement new techniques and figure out the best way to apply new technology to our farm.

Networking

Over the years I went to banquets, meetings and livestock events with my dad and made friendships with men and women in all sectors of ag simply because my dad worked with them in some way.

My dad never said “make sure you get to know him, he’ll get you a job someday” or anything like that. Instead, he introduced me to their kids who also showed pigs or we joked about how they were just as obsessed with their favorite team as we were with LSU football.

I never knew that “Mr. Mike” who always goofed off and played with my siblings and I was the director of the Ky Pork Producers and one of the most respected men in Kentucky agriculture. To us, he and his family were just our friends.

Without ever telling me, my parents were teaching me about what networking is really about – forming true friendships and working relationships with people in your industry who you respect and who respect you as a person and your work.

When I graduated college, so many of the people I had first gotten to know at an ag conference were there to offer me career advice, a reference or tell me about a job opportunity. Not because I had spent years sucking up to them but because we were truly family friends.

How to strike up a conversation with anyone.

There’s a lot to be said for knowing how to make polite small talk.

Whether I like it or not, I look like my dad with a ponytail so there was never any denying that I was “Kevin’s daughter.”

This meant that people who hadn’t seen me since I was 4 would often come up and start a conversation with me, assuming that I remembered them as well. I learned from a young age how to politely navigate these awkward conversations and never let the person know that I had no idea who they were!

Guess what? That’s a skill I still use on a regular basis in my professional life.

Getting involved in the political process

In a post this summer, I tallied how many times Lorelei has heard Commissioner James Comer speak in her short life. (We can now add the 2013 Ky State Fair and 2014 Pork Producer’s Annual Meeting to that list).

Many people go their entire lives without ever hearing from their elected officials, let alone talking to them or making their voices heard.

At agriculture conferences, children not only get to hear from elected officials but learn what is happening in Washington and their state capitol and how it affects agriculture.

They get to see the political process in action, not just read about it in a text book.

The importance of giving back

Every ag conference or convention I’ve ever been to has some form of fundraiser to give back. Whether its a scholarship fund, a donation to a non-profit or raising money for a youth organization, its hard to find more generous people than those in agriculture.raffle tickets (2)

Every year, the Kentucky Pork Producers has a scholarship auction to raise money for the scholarships they give every year. As children, we loved coming to the auction and hearing the ring men hoop and holler while the bidding went higher and higher.

When my brother was about 8 years old, some friends let him bid for them on a pottery piggy bank.

He was so proud to be the one casting bids and as the bids went higher he got more and more excited. He ended up winning the piggy bank at the whopping total of $350.

Even as kids, we knew $350 was WAY more than a piggy bank was actually worth.

That night, my parents explained to us that bidders were paying an inflated price because it wasn’t really about what they were buying, it was about supporting another generation of farmers as they pursued a college education.

I think most of my farming friends would agree, agriculture conferences just wouldn’t be the same without the children.

And I, for one, hope that never changes!

Why do you bring your kids to ag conferences? I’d love to hear from you in the comments!

Farm Mom Favorites: Christmas books for children

pinterestI am completely obsessed with Christmas books. Every year my mom always bought a new Christmas book for us and we’d spend the whole month of December reading through our collection, time and time again.

I knew I wanted to start the same tradition for Lorelei, so last year I searched book stores and scoured the internet until I found the perfect book for her first Christmas.

I asked a few of my blogging farm mom friends to recommend their favorite Christmas books for your little ones. I know I’ll have to add these to our collection over the years!

Celeste Harnedceleste

Kentucky – Blog: A Farm Mom’s Perspective

My all time favorite Christmas book is A Special Place for Santa. In this story, Santa is worried that people are focusing too much on him instead of the true meaning of Christmas. After delivering all of the toys on Christmas, Santa stops at a church so he can be the first person to wish Jesus a happy birthday. He begins to apologize that he is taking the focus off of Jesus when God starts speaking to him and reminding him of how Santa Claus as we know him came to be.

The book focuses on the story of St. Nicholas and the history behind Santa bringing gifts on Christmas. At the end of the story, reminded of all of the good that he does to spread Christmas cheer, Santa gives his gift to the baby Jesus: a list of all the good things people have done over the past year.

Holly Spangler

The Spangler kids.

The Spangler kids.

Illinois – Blog: My Generation

We love Mrs. Wishy Washy’s Christmas. It’s completely silly and every one of my kids adored it as toddlers and preschoolers. The words roll off your tongue – “I’m chilled to the bill, and that’s not nice!” – and the tale of the cow, the pig and the poor old duck sneaking into the Wishy-Washy house and using her pink bathroom to avoid the cold barn washtub is giggle-worthy, every time. We found this Christmas version of the Mrs. Wishy Washy series through our all-time favorite book, Mrs. Wishy Washy’s Farm. They are two great books for every preschool library. “…and no doubt about it, home is best!”

Emily Zweber

The Zweber kids.

The Zweber kids.

Minnesota – Blog: Zweber Farms Blog

My mother has a tradition of buying a new Christmas story book each year. Several years ago, she bought a book titled “Farm Country Christmas Eve.” I loved the story instantly, not knowing that book would lead to me to meet some amazing people. Set in the 1950′s, the story is about a dairy farm family celebrating Christmas Eve. The family must go to the barn to do chores and milk the cows, so that Santa has a chance to visit their house. The children are quick to do their chores and are greeted with simple, but meaningful presents when they are done. Two years ago, I learned that the author of this book, Gordon Fredrickson, was going to be doing readings at our county fair. Tim and I decided to take the boys to go meet the author. We instantly connected with Gordon and his wife Nancy. We learned that they do not live too far from us. I now consider the Fredrickson’s friends. Farm book lovers both young and not so young with enjoy Gordon Fredrickson’s books. He even signs all the books he sells and has free shipping.

Ashton Dawson

The Dawson family: Ashton, her husband John Dockins and their one year old son Kirtley.

The Dawson family: Ashton, her husband John Dockins and their one year old son Kirtley. Photo by Morgan Marie Photography.

Kentucky – Blog: Ashton Oakes Photography and her personal blog, Everyday Farmer’s Wife.

Sharing Christmas books with my son are one of my favorite traditions. Year round. My parents bought Christmas books for me as a child, and continued once my sister was born seven years later. I remember sitting in the big blue recliner, not so big now that I’m adult, with Daddy or Mama reading these books. Then once my sister was born, I would hold her in the big blue recliner reading the same stories. I’m not sure why these memories stick out so much but it made me want to start the same tradition for my own children. Hoping they will enjoy it as much as I did and still do.

The Twelve Days of Christmas is based on the song we all know. Kirtley was given this book just a few weeks ago but it’s become my favorite very quick. I don’t keep this book out with the rest for the simple reason I have a one year old boy and I’m afraid he’ll tear pages out. I guess this book would be one of my favorites because of his reaction when we sit down to read it. As each page turns he asked what this animal is or this object. He ooh’s and ahh’s over every page. Taking it all in. The Twelve Days of Christmas is a beautifully illustrated book. Down to each little detail. Nothing is missing. I’ll probably continue to keep this book just out of reach until Kirtley is old enough to take care of it.
The Christmas Story is one of the first Christmas books my mom bought for me. She wrote my name and the year in the cover. She bought several that same year, all a Little Golden Book. This book tells the story of Jesus and his birth. Kirtley thinks the donkey in the book is a cow, so as we turn the pages he moo’s. Then he points asking who is this, pointing to baby Jesus. Occasionally he’ll say baby. All I can think is yes son that is a baby, the most special little baby the world has ever known. I know he’s too young to understand the story of Jesus’ birth, but in the upcoming years he will and this book will become even better.
Photos by Ashton Oakes Dawson of Ashton Oakes Photography

Photos by Ashton Oakes Dawson of Ashton Oakes Photography

Emily Mohn

emily mohn

Emily and her beautiful daughters.

Minnesota – Blog: Sweet Home Minnesota

My favorite children’s book around the holidays was always “The Mitten.” It’s a Ukrainian folktale about a young boy who loses his white mitten in the snow. Different animals in the woods found it and burrowed in to get out of the cold. As a young child I always thought it was so funny how so many animals could fit into one little mitten! I remember my grandma reading it to me mostly, and to this day, at age 28, I can recite this book word for word. THAT’S how much we read it growing up. My family is from Scandinavian decent so the artwork in the book always reminded me of my grandma and her house. In the book, the grandmother is referred to as “Baba” which is polish for “Grandma” This is what all of us grandkids called my grandma so I could relate to the book in that special way too.  My favorite part of the book is at the end, when the boy finds his mitten again, all stretched out from so many animals being in it. He gives it to Baba and she is looking down at it wondering what in the world happened!

One more favorite of mine is “Cajun Night Before Christmas.”A classic Christmas story with a bit of a southern twist. If you can find someone from Louisiana to read this to you, you will enjoy it as much as I do! My dad, who was born and raised in southern Louisiana, bought this for me a few years ago to read to my kids. I do my best, but it sounds so much better with his strong accent. It reminds me of my grandparents from Louisiana who have both passed away and the way they sounded on phone conversations. Imagine a southern drawl with a French kick! It wasn’t always easy to understand them but I LOVED their accent. So, if you’re ever down that way…ask a Cajun to read you this story!

*Note from Celeste: Emily Mohn and I are both Cajun transplants so we’ve always connected over our love of all things Cajun. I grew up reading this book too and absolutely loved it! My sister Renee and I always got a kick out of the fact that two of Santa’s alligators were named Celeste and Renee. I loved that Emily chose it as one of her favorites too!

How do family farmers prepare for winter storms?

A Kentucky beef cattle farmer shares how her family farm prepares for a snow or ice storm. This afternoon, Lorelei and I are headed to the grocery store.

We’ll pick up enough milk and eggs to make it through the weekend and fill the car up with gas just in case the ice/snow that’s predicted really hits us.

We’ll put a spare coat and a few heavy blankets in the trunk of the car, just in case we get stuck somewhere.

That’s it. A shopping trip and a few little errands and we’re ready for winter weather.

For farm families, however, there is so much more that goes into preparing for winter storms.

Every farm family is different, but this is how my family prepares for winter storms on our beef cattle farm.

When the temperature drops below freezing (even if there’s no snow on the ground) our first priority is making sure that our cattle have water.

This photo is a few years old but this is still one of my little brother Daniel's jobs, filling up the water trough.

This photo is a few years old but this is still one of my little brother Daniel’s jobs, filling up the water trough.

On our farm, we use a portable watering system so that the water trough can move from pasture to pasture with the cattle. Unfortunately, the trough and above ground pipes that run to it can freeze easily so when the temperature is below freezing we have to go out and water the cattle by hand.

At least twice a day, we run a hose from a frost-free hydrant and fill up the trough with it, just like you fill up a backyard swimming pool. We make sure that all the cattle come up to drink, which gives us a great opportunity to make sure they aren’t showing any signs of illness.

Many cattle farms in Kentucky have frost-free waterers for their cattle. These are permanent troughs that keep the water warm enough so that it won’t freeze. Even though the trough does most of the work, the farmers still go out and check every waterer daily to make sure that they are functioning properly.

Over the weekend, my dad, sister and brother hauled a load of hay to our farm.

My brother, Bud, and my dad stacking a load of hay in the back of the truck. Photo courtesy of Renee Laurent.

My brother, Bud, and my dad stacking a load of hay in the back of the truck. Photo courtesy of Renee Laurent.

We don’t feed hay regularly during the winter because we have enough have enough grass on our farm for our cattle to graze year round.

Sometimes, there is too much snow for the cattle to graze through so we keep enough hay on hand to make sure that they won’t go hungry.

When this happens, we go out and feed them square hay bales twice a day.

On foot, through the snow, we’ll carry bales to their feed troughs and spread them out for the cattle to eat. Its physical, hard work in the freezing cold that often leaves us sweating and freezing at the same time. (Can you tell this was not my favorite job on the farm?)

Throughout the winter, we also feed our cattle a grain feed that has vitamins and minerals mixed in to make sure they stay on a healthy, balanced diet.

When the weather gets bad, we have to make sure that we keep a close eye out for any signs of illness in our calves.

Cattle are very well suited for winter weather but sometimes they come down with a cold or respiratory ailment just like you or I would.

Before a storm hits, my dad will make sure that he has some basic medications on hand just in case one of the calves gets sick.

We treat any sick calves as soon as possible so that they can start to get better. The last thing we want is for the added stress of a winter storm to add to their sickness!

If a calf is sick, they often won't eat so we watch the whole herd eat and make sure they all have a healthy appetite.

If a calf is getting sick, they usually don’t want to eat. We watch the whole herd eat and make sure they all have a healthy appetite.

During a winter storm, our cattle are our top priority.

Even though I’m not a part of the day to day work on our farm anymore, I still immediately think of our farm whenever the weatherman predicts a winter storm.

As I pick up my groceries today, I’ll be thankful for the many farm families across the country who are preparing to care for their animals through the storm.

I hope you will too.

Help ranchers devastated by Winter Storm Atlas – Tyson to donate $10 per tweet to #RancherRelief

Two weeks ago, South Dakota’s farm and ranch families were devastated when Winter Storm Atlas brought several feet of snow and 70 mile per hour wind gusts upon them with little or no notice.agchat_tweetcast

Thousands of cattle, sheep and horses were buried alive beneath snow drifts or died of exhaustion and exposure while trying to escape the storm’s wrath.

In the days that followed, ranchers trudged through the snow desperately searching for any animals that had managed to survive so that they could give them the food, water and medical attention they desperately needed.

If this is the first you’re hearing about this disaster, please take a few moments to read a blog post by a ranch wife whose family is right in the middle of it all, Jodene Shaw.

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To this farm mom, Chipotle’s “The Scarecrow” video is an attack on family farmers

Over the past year or two, I’ve had many people ask me why I haven’t done a post about Chipotle and their misleading marketing and lies about family farmers.chipotle screenshot

I’ve given each of those people the same response – a family friend once told me that you should never send an email when you’re mad.

You can write the email, but then you should sleep on it, let someone else read it, think about it, etc… but never send it while you’re mad.

The way I see it, writing a blog post when you’re mad is even worse than writing an email. I started writing a Chipotle post several times but each draft was filled with anger and frustration so I decided to to wait until I wasn’t mad anymore.

Today, I decided to stop waiting.

I’m still mad.

No, mad doesn’t really describe it.

I’m hurt.

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Cookies and Milk with the Commissioner of Ag

Last week, Lorelei and I went to “Cookies and Milk with the Commissioner of Agriculture” at LeCows Dairy in Paducah.

LeCows Dairy's Lesa Clark welcomed everyone to their "Cookies and Milk with the Commissioner" event.

LeCows Dairy’s Lesa Clark welcomed everyone to their “Cookies and Milk with the Commissioner” event.

The folks at LeCows Dairy have been giving farm tours for years and love sharing their farm story via their website and facebook, twitter and instagram pages.

When they found out that Commissioner Comer would be stopping by, they invited the whole community to visit their farm, enjoy some cookies and milk and give him a west Kentucky welcome.

Since I’m not from Paducah, I really don’t know any of the other farm families in the county.

When I heard about the event, and that LeCows Dairy’s Lesa Clark and Ellie Waggoner were fellow Commonground volunteers, I jumped at the chance to go experience their farm and meet them.

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This mom NEVER pays full price for meat (and she’s sharing her secrets!)

My husband, Aaron, and I are the typical young family.

I overhauled my grocery shopping strategy and now I NEVER pay full price for meat.

I overhauled my grocery shopping strategy and now I NEVER pay full price for meat.

We got married right out of college, both started chasing our dream jobs from the bottom (I established Celeste Communications and he went back to the family restaurant), had a baby and live in a little rental house.

We’re working hard and saving as much as we can to buy a house/farm, upgrade from the vehicles that got us through college and someday put another kid through diapers (not anytime soon though!)

When I was pregnant with Lorelei, I was completely terrified of all the added expenses of a baby. While covering two different events for two different clients, I found myself sitting in on sessions about couponing.

One of those was given by a farm wife much like me. Couponing was not a necessity for her family, however, the more she could save the more they could put towards their future goals.

When she mentioned that her sister-in-law never paid for baby wipes I was sold.

The next weekend, Aaron and I started implementing a drastic overhaul of our grocery shopping strategy.

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Celeste Comm is now on Etsy!

Things are as crazy as ever in the Harned house.

Lorelei is walking and climbing and nothing in our house is safe anymore.

Aaron is staying busy at Harned’s Drive-In and we’re both ready for a break when the restaurant closes to clean in a few weeks.

Our three adorable nieces spent the three weeks here bouncing between their grandparents, great-grandmother and our house. (Which Lorelei absolutely loved!)

On top of it all, Celeste Communications launched the Etsy shop!

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I started kicking around the idea of adding an online store to Celeste Comm in December when after Christmas, friends kept mentioning that they didn’t realize they could have had me design gifts for them.

After a few months of research, I floated the idea by Aaron. As my trusty “CFO,” he did even more research and soon jumped on board.

We decided Etsy was the right fit for Celeste Comm and then began researching all the in’s and out’s and rules of owning an Etsy shop.first etsy order for blog

All the while I was designing. Wedding invitations, metal signs, greeting cards, birthday party invitations, save-the-dates. You name it!

The Celeste Comm shop opened on June 25 and two days later, with no promotion on Facebook or Pinterest or anything like that, I made my first sale.

To say we were excited would be the understatement of the year!

I kicked off the grand opening on my Facebook page on July 10 and was completely overwhelmed by the support from my Facebook fans and twitter and instagram followers.

Thank you all for your kind words, retweets, shares and pins. You’re the best!

The shop is off to a busy start and I’m loving every minute of it.

If you’d like to browse my shop, please visit: www.celestecomm.etsy.com

How you can help the farm families affected by the Oklahoma tornadoes

Like many of you, my thoughts and prayers have been with the families whose lives were literally uprooted by the devastating tornadoes in Oklahoma on Monday.

I can not imagine what it must be like to lose your home, neighborhood and loved ones all in a matter of minutes.

One group of tornado victims lost their livelihood as well: the many family farmers and ranchers in the storm’s path.

"Rescue workers recover a horse from a destroyed barn." Photo and caption from the Associated Press

“Rescue workers recover a horse from a destroyed barn.” Photo and caption from the Associated Press

Farmers and ranchers lost barns, storage sheds and shops that housed millions of dollars of livestock or equipment.

Their crop fields were ravaged and their pasture fences destroyed.

When many of their neighbors return to work in their offices, these farmers will still be cleaning up debris.

When their friends are once again bringing home a paycheck, these farmers will still be a long way from being ready to raise animals or crops again.

My heart goes out to these hard working families because I know they have a long road ahead of them.

My friend Holly Carroll, a former Kentucky FFA state officer and agriculture educator, now works for Oklahoma Farm Bureau.

Yesterday, she shared with me one way that we can help the Oklahoma farm families affected by the tornadoes by donating to the Oklahoma Farming and Ranching Foundation.

In a facebook message she said,

“At this point we look at it like a marathon, not a sprint. We are trying to think long term for clean up on the farms.”

Holly said they plan to use donations to purchase the basics for rebuilding and cleaning up farms, such as gloves, shovels, rakes, etc…

If you’d like to donate, mail a check to:

Oklahoma Farming and Ranching Foundation
Attn: Monica Wilke
2501 N Stiles
Oklahoma City, OK 73105

Please make checks out to Oklahoma Farming and Ranching Foundation and write “tornado relief” on the memo line or an enclosed note.

If you’d like more information or have questions, you can contact Holly Carroll directly by phone at 405-301-6610 or email at holly.carroll@okfb.com.

Most of all, keep these farming and ranching families in your thoughts and prayers. They have a long, hard road ahead of them but if they’re anything like the farm families I know (and I have a feeling they are) they won’t stop working until their farms are in even better shape than before.