Unsinkable – Fundraiser for Louisiana Flood Victims

Over the past 5 days, my home state of Louisiana has been devastated by record breaking floods.pinterest image

(If you haven’t heard about this disaster, this article can fill you in on what has happened).

To be quite honest, its hard for me to put the devastation into words.

My dad’s hometown is underwater. My grandmother was evacuated from her home in a boat.

Three generations of my family are trying to figure out how to pick up the pieces.

Their friends and neighbors are all facing the exact same situation, multiple generations of families whose homes were all flooded in this disaster.

And I’m 12 hours away, heartbroken and helpless as the waters recede and they begin to see just how much damage the flood has done.

It feels like there is nothing I can do.

I can’t rip the drywall out of my grandmother’s house. I can’t replace my aunt’s carpet.

I can’t help my cousins blow dry family photographs and try to sort through the years of memories that the flood tried to wash away.

I can’t even give my Mawmaw a hug and tell her how proud I am of her for staying so strong through all of this.

But I can create. I can pour my heart and my tears and my worries into my art.

All weekend my husband and I have prayed over how we can use these talents and this blog that God has given me to help the flood victims.

This is where He led us.

I’ve designed a t-shirt that you can order through Booster. 100% of the proceeds will be donated to flood victims.

The shirts will be available in two colors and can be purchased until August 31, 2016. After the campaign ends, Booster will print and ship the shirts directly to you.

The Booster campaign also gives you the option to make a donation in addition to your shirt purchase. So if you want to donate $100 but you only want one shirt, you can add the rest as a donation.

You can purchase t-shirts here: www.booster.com/unsinkable

unsinkable shirts for Louisiana flood victims

If t-shirts aren’t really your thing or you’re on a budget, I’ve also added the same design as an 8×10 inch printable to the Celeste Comm Etsy Shop.

Our instant download printables are only $5 and 100% of those proceeds will be donated as well.

You can purchase the printable here: http://etsy.me/2bay6hR

unsinkable printables for Louisiana flood victims

Please understand, this is NOT about exposure for my business or my blog. I’m even going to donate any ad revenue this post generates. I’m not going to pocket a dime from this.

This is about using the avenues that God has helped us to establish to do His work and help others.

Most of all, we ask that you pray for everyone in Louisiana who has been devastated by this record setting flood.

They have a very, very long road ahead of them.

Photos by Tyler Bicknell Photography.

Photos by Tyler Bicknell Photography.

(A very big thank you to Tyler Bicknell Photography in Lafayette, LA for graciously providing photos of the flooding). 

Is it ok to hunt Pokemon on a farm?

A long, long time ago, when Gameboys were black and white and Pokemon was first popular, I was the proud trainer of a pretty ferocious Charizard.Is it ok to hunt Pokemon on farms?

My brother and I were obsessed with Pokemon, spending as much time playing as my parents would allow.

When I saw the new Pokemon Go game was released, I couldn’t help but smile thinking of how many adults my age were rekindling their childhood love of catching and training those little virtual creatures.

If you’ve read my blog in the past, you know I mostly focus on food and farming. I’ve written about anti-family farming extremist groupsfood shaming and how to save money on groceries.

So why on earth am I writing about Pokemon?

Because my news feeds are blowing up with news stories about people playing Pokemon Go and wandering their way into trouble!

Which got me  thinking, what’s an easy way that a Pokemon Go player could get themselves into trouble in the rural area where I live? Wandering around on a farm.

Here’s a few reasons why:

Private property

First of all, its important to respect private property laws. If you wouldn’t wander into a stranger’s living room to catch that Jigglypuff, then you shouldn’t wander into their barn or crop field.

Plus, you don’t want your Pokemon hunting to end with a conversation with your local law enforcement. If a farmer sees a strange person wandering around on their farm, chances are the police are going to end up involved.

A farm is a business

Would you go into a department store and walk all over all of the folded clothes they’re selling until you caught that Growlithe?

Of course not! That would be extremely rude and damaging to the product they’re selling.

What if it was a field of corn or soybeans?

Wandering around a crop field, stepping on plants and knocking over corn stalks is damaging the product that farmer depends on selling to support their family.


What seems like a simple hop over a fence could leave you seriously injured.

First of all, the fence itself could hurt you.

It might be made of barbed wire (a type of fencing with sharp metal pieces that can easily cut you) or it could be an electric fence. Trust me, if it’s shock is strong enough to deter a 1,000 lb animal that means its not going to feel too good to you either!

Speaking of animals, you should never get in an animal’s pen without permission from the owner.

When an animal encounters a stranger, they are often frightened will probably do one of two things: run away from you or charge at you. Either way, you or the animal could easily wind up seriously injured.

Even if a pasture looks empty there could be an animal in it. During the summer, most livestock like to hang out in the shade. So while you might not see that bull hiding out at the edge of the woods, he sees you.

So is it ever ok to hunt Pokemon on a farm?

Sure, if the farm owner gives you permission.

During your conversation, be sure to ask if there are any safety concerns you should be aware of (aggressive animals, sinkholes, electric fences, etc…)

Don’t assume that you have permission to return and hunt again whenever you want. Things could have changed since the last time you were there. An area that was once safe for you to wander around might not be anymore. Always speak to the farm owner before you go out onto their property.

Most importantly, respect the farm and make sure not to damage anything.

Hopefully these tips will help protect both you and your local farms on your quest to catch ’em all! 

Meet our little farm boy!

You may have noticed things have been quiet around here lately, but I promise, we’ve got an awfully cute excuse for that.

On March 31st, we welcomed our son Landon.

He is absolutely perfect, with his Daddy’s blue eyes, his Mama’s mouth and the spitting image of his big sister as a baby.

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Big sister couldn’t be more in love with him.

The first thing out of her mouth every morning is “Good morning Landon! Can I hold him, Mommy?” (Mom and Dad are chopped liver these days!)

She reads him books, picks out his clothes and has appointed herself the official diaper-trasher.

Meet our little farm boy sister

Landon seems to be pretty fond of her too.

When he wakes up before her, he is so confused by the quiet. He’s constantly looking around for his playmate.

He loves to lay on the floor next to her and watch her play.

His first “real” smiles came from her singing to him.

Meet our little farm boy family

We are so blessed to have two beautiful, healthy children.

The most unexpected blessing has been getting to watch them love each other. Right now, we’re soaking as much of that in as we can.

I’ll be back to my blogging game soon, but for now I’m sticking with the “babies don’t keep” mentality and enjoying every moment of having a lap full of cuddling kiddos.

Guest post: #RareActsOfKindness Week to celebrate Rare Disease Day

#RareActsOfKindness Week to celebrate Rare Disease Day 1My sister Anna was born with a very rare genetic disorder called Alagille Syndrome (ALGS). There are only about 8,000 cases of ALGS in the United States and only a couple of hospitals that treat it.

Last year, Anna challenged her friends to perform Rare Acts of Kindness in honor of Rare Disease Day.

It was such a success that this year she’s making a week-long celebration of it!

I’m honored to let her take over my blog this week to spread the word about this event and raise awareness for rare people everywhere!

Guest post by Anna Laurent

It’s almost Rare Disease Day 2016, everyone!

I’m so excited about the theme this year, Patient Voice because it highlights the importance of advocacy on behalf of those with rare diseases.Guest post: #RareActsOfKindness Week to celebrate Rare Disease Day 3

For those of us who have a rare disease and are able to advocate for ourselves this is simply a part of living life. Whether it’s telling a friend about your condition for the first time or explaining your physical limitations to an employer, our lives are spent advocating.

In some situations, those with rare diseases aren’t able to advocate for themselves. That’s when our families, friends or caretakers take on the role.

This is an incredibly difficult job. I remember when I was young and unable to express my unique needs, how my parents took on that important task. They gave me a voice in the world when I was unable to do so myself.

To be honest, there are times when advocating feels more like fighting. Facing the reality that this battle is never ending can be overwhelming.

Life with a rare disease can feel very lonely, but in the middle of some of my greatest trials my family and friends rallied around me and supported me every step of the way.

Together, we can ALL unite to support and celebrate the amazing impact rare people make on our world.

Together we can increase awareness for ALL rare diseases.

Together we can make sure the voices of ALL rare people are heard.

#RareActsOfKindness Week to celebrate Rare Disease Day

In honor of Rare Disease Day, I challenge you to join us in celebrating rare people by performing acts of kindness in your community from February 22nd to February 29th.

Make sure you snap a photo and share it online with the hashtags #RareActsOfKindness and #RareDiseaseDay!

To make things even easier, we’ve designed printable cards to share with your #RareActsOfKindness recipients. Click here to print your #RareActsOfKindness cards.

For ideas of ways to celebrate and to connect with other rare people and the folks who love them, make sure you join our facebook event!

Last year’s Rare Acts of Kindness was a huge success, making our communities a little more kind and warming the hearts of rare people around the world. I can’t wait to see what an impact we can make in 2016!


A thank you to my FFA friends

When I started seeing National FFA Week posts pop up on my various newsfeeds today, the first thing that came to mind was fond memories of some of my dearest friends.

I recently wrote a post about the many things students gain from FFA and agriculture education.A thank you to my FFA friends

Today though, I want to focus on another aspect of my FFA experience that has made a profound impact on my life – my FFA friends.

I don’t know why FFA friendships are so special.

Maybe it was bonding over pink lemonade and orange sherbet at FFA camp. Maybe it was the pantyhose runs, tie tying lessons and late night shirt ironing.

Maybe there’s something about giving speeches, showing livestock and interview contests that brings like minded kids together.

Whatever the reason, as I look back on the eight years since I hung up my FFA jacket, one thing has not changed – my FFA friends are there for me no matter what.

One of them became my husband (so I guess you could say my very best friend came from FFA!) Our FFA friends became our college friends, roommates and the members of our wedding party. One of them is even our daughter’s godfather.

They make up half of our Christmas card list. They’re the reason that any agriculture event feels more like a family reunion than a business function.

Nothing is off limits with FFA friends.

When I launched my business and we began the journey of trying to buy our farm, they were the ones we could call on for pep talks to keep us motivated and blunt reality checks to keep us grounded.

They’re the kind of friends who give you candid advice you never knew you needed, whether in the form of Dave Ramsey books or breastfeeding tips.

Sometimes they help you pick out car seats, paint colors and sushi rolls. Other times they’re helping you decide between job offers and life insurance plans.

No matter how big or little the decision, they’re your most trusted advisers and the people you want to springboard your ideas off of.

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They’re the first people you turn to when you need prayers.

Farm folks are always there for each other in the hard times, ready to do whatever they can to help or ease the pain just a little.

FFA friends are no different. Since they’ve known you since you were a teenager, you’ve grown up with them and they understand you in a way that friendships forged in adulthood just can’t.

FFA friends show up at funerals for your family members they barely knew, because they know you need them there. When you get a call that your grandmother was airlifted for emergency surgery, they talk you down from your crying meltdown and keep you calm enough to drive home safely.

They send you a heartfelt text or a facebook message when there are too many miles between you for a hug.

When their sibling is battling cancer or their baby is in the NICU, an army of prayer warriors rallies around them, made up mostly of FFA friends.

In my toughest times, knowing that I could turn to them for prayers, support and someone to have a good cry with made all the difference.

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Friendships like these are such a blessing.

They’re the kind that grow stronger through the years, even though it seems that you’re spending less and less time together.

They survive the changes that come with marriages, babies, moves and new jobs.

They never expect a thank you, but they deserve one.

When I think back on everything I gained during my time in FFA, my friends are the first thing that come to mind.

The plaques and banners were boxed up years ago. The jackets are hanging in the back corner of a closet. The photos are buried in some old facebook album.

The friends? They’re still on speed dial and I don’t foresee that changing any time soon.

So to each of you: thank you.

Thank you for the laughs, prayers, hugs and memories. And thank God for FFA for bringing us all together!

Lighting a fire in the D.C. snow | National CommonGround Conference

About 2 weeks ago, I dodged a blizzard and safely arrived home from a whirlwind trip to Washington D.C. for the National CommonGround Conference.

CommonGround is a team of female farmer volunteers who are passionate about having conversations about how food is grown. We are a grassroots effort, funded by America’s soybean and corn farmers to share our personal experiences, science and research to help you sort through myths and misinformation surrounding food and farming.

Lighting a fire in the D.C. snow | National CommonGround Conference

The Kentucky CommonGround volunteers and staff attending the national conference.

We don’t get paid to participate.

No one tells us what we can and can’t say.

We volunteer our time to host events and share personal stories from our farms because we believe that connecting with the people who eat the food we grow is important.

I’ve been volunteering with Kentucky’s CommonGround team since it first began in 2011 but this was my first opportunity to attend the national conference/training. Needless to say, I was ecstatic to finally be able to go!

I’ll be honest, most people in my life thought I was crazy for even going to this conference. I really don’t blame them. I was 30 weeks pregnant and there was a record setting blizzard headed right for D.C.

I could sense what they were thinking: “You’ve been blogging for years, what are you really going to learn?” or “Is this really worth getting snowed into D.C. for?”

I had my doubts too, but luckily my wonderful state coordinator reminded me that attending a training of this caliber at the Smithsonian was a once-in-a-lifetime opportunity. So I ignored my worries and hopped on a plane headed into a snow storm.

I had no idea we were going to light a fire in that D.C. snow.

I wasn’t prepared to be rocked, motivated and recharged in ways I didn’t even know I needed.

I didn’t know that these women and this cause would take root in my heart, in a deeper way than I had ever experienced.

We all had a lot in common.

All of us are family farmers. Most of us are wives. Many of us are mothers.

Every one of us was passionate about sharing how our families grow your food.

Every woman in the room was eager to connect with her non-farming peers, ready to answer their questions about food and farming.

Being surrounded by women who were so much like me was a surreal feeling.

Lighting a fire in the D.C. snow | National CommonGround Conference

Alicia and Katie, having blogging farm mom friends like these two is such a blessing!

At meals we swapped stories about raising our kids around agriculture and commiserated with each other over the challenges of being self-employed.

During a breakout session, we shared tips on answering food questions from that one relative we all have who still hasn’t caught on that Dr. Oz is a quack!

We laughed together, cried together and grew together as women united in the common goal of pouring our hearts and souls into sharing the story of American agriculture.

For as much as we had in common, we were also dramatically different.

Some were blogging rock stars, with thousands of online followers and fans.

Some barely used a facebook profile, but were known throughout their local communities as the best person to reach out to when you have a question about food or farming.

There were women who were amazing writers, natural born teachers, all-star farm tour guides and those who could strike up a conversation with anyone at a trade show.

No matter what the audience/occasion, there was a woman there who was perfectly suited to use it to share the story of American agriculture.

I watched in awe as my new friends showed off their talents, making things I’ve struggled with for years look so easy.

I carefully considered the way I approach blog posts, online conversations and in-person discussions with the people who eat the food my family raises and tried to soak up as many tips as I could to make these interactions more meaningful.

These women lit a fire in my heart and I left refreshed, recharged and eager to rededicate myself to sharing the stories of family farms like mine. 

Lighting a fire in the D.C. snow | National CommonGround Conference

So what does that mean for you, my lovely readers? There’s going to be some exciting changes around here!

Now that I have a new network of 60+ new farming friends, I’ll be sharing their expertise to help you learn even more about how food is grown.

When I talk about how we raise our show pigs on our small farm, I’ll also be able to share with you how my friends Val and Alicia are caring for their pigs on their large farms.

When its time to talk about milk, corn, soybeans, sheep or wheat, I’ll have the perfect friends to call on to help me make sure I’m sharing the most accurate information with you!

Also, after all these years, I’m finally launching a facebook page for this blog.

I’ve had readers requesting it for a while, but honestly, I was worried I’d neglect the page because the Celeste Comm and restaurant pages keep me so busy.

Thanks to some tips from those blogging rock stars I mentioned earlier, I’m going to give it a shot and hopefully we can all connect even more!

I’ll be sharing my latest posts, as well as posts and videos from my farming friends’ blogs.

I hope you’ll give it a like and share the posts that connect with you.

A Farm Mom's PerspectiveFor more information about CommonGround, check out our website. Its a fantastic resource for answering common food questions! We’re on facebook, instagram and youtube too!

The truth about FFA and agriculture education

The truth about FFA and agriculture educationToday an article from the animal rights extremist group PETA has been making the rounds online, calling FFA “lame” and saying all sorts of horrible things about the National FFA Organization (formerly known as the Future Farmers of America).

(I won’t be linking to the PETA article because I’m not going to help them spread their propaganda and slander. If you’re dying to read it for yourself, head to your favorite search engine and I’m sure it won’t be hard to find). 

I have blogged about FFA several times. I’m very open about the fact that FFA changed my life in more positive ways than any other organization or extracurricular activity I participated in. Today, I’m honored to call the Kentucky FFA Association a client and to tell the story of the amazing students who make up their membership.

So today when I read the article from PETA, I was overwhelmed with pity for the author.

Somehow this young lady was so caught up in her own world of extremism that she missed out on all the amazing opportunities FFA and agriculture education provide for students.

Obviously, as someone who raises cattle and show pigs on my family farm, the author and I disagree on the issue of raising animals for human consumption. So we can just agree to disagree on that.

What about the thousands of other aspects of FFA?

Here’s the cold hard truth about FFA and agriculture education:

FFA and agriculture education focus on science-based, hands-on learning.

I have no doubt that some of the greatest teachers in the world are agriculture educators. In a world of standardized tests, they still find a way to make hands-on learning the cornerstone of their classrooms.

Agriculture education students learn about plant science in their school’s greenhouses. They build clay models of the complex digestive system of a cow in animal science class.

They learn how to weld and the science behind different types of welding machines. They learn how small engines work, while building and repairing them.

In FFA competitions, students can conduct science experiments and compete in the Agriscience Fair. During this competition, students are not only evaluated on the merit of their experiment but also on their ability to present their findings to the judges. Which brings me to my next point…

The truth about FFA and agriculture education service

FFA teaches public speaking and advocacy skills.

Ask any former agriculture student and I bet they can still remember the time they had to say the FFA Creed in front of their class. For many students, that was their first taste of public speaking. Their agriculture teacher was the first person who taught them how to stand up straight and present a speech, how to persuade a listener or how to present complex information in a way that the audience could understand.

Through FFA competitions (called Career Development Events) such as prepared public speaking, extemporaneous speaking and agriculture issues, members develop real world experience in public speaking/presentations that will benefit them no matter what career path they choose.

FFA prepares students to run a business.

The author of the PETA article makes reference to Supervised Agriculture Experience (SAE) Programs, often called “projects,” that FFA members must participate in. Basically, every member has to have some sort of project that they work on outside of class time to apply the skills they’re learning in the classroom.

My SAE was raising show pigs. My husband’s SAE was working at his family restaurant.

FFA members keep a record of their income and expenses pertaining to the project. They fill out record books detailing how their money was spent and any profits made. These record books even include short answer sections where members discuss what they learned in the project and how they can improve the next year.

When I was in FFA, I never expected that I would someday be self-employed. The experiences and tough lessons I learned on my small SAE project have proven invaluable today as a small business owner. Not a day goes by that I don’t draw on my FFA experience when running my business.

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My husband and I participating in our FFA Supervised Agriculture Experience Programs.

For many FFA members, SAE’s are the foundation of a future career.

My cousin started his landscaping business when he was an FFA member over 10 years ago. Today his business has grown to one of the most well respected landscaping companies in our area. He is able to provide for his family and create jobs for several other people in our community, all through a business that first started as his SAE.

FFA members give back to their communities.

The last line of the FFA motto is “living to serve” so it should be no surprise that community service is an integral part of the FFA experience.

During my 4 years in FFA, I helped my chapter organize food drives, purchase Christmas gifts for needy children, pick up trash along the highway, raise money for a local non-profit that helps adults with special needs, restore rural cemeteries, participate in Relay for Life, raise awareness for local conservation efforts, support rebuilding efforts after Hurricane Katrina and provide a full day of farm tours and agriculture experiences for 3rd grade students.

That was just one chapter, in one rural community.

Every single one of the 7,757 FFA chapters across the country spends their year giving back to their community in numerous ways.

Through my work with the Kentucky FFA Association, I’ve even been able to cover chapters doing community service in communities far away from home during the annual Day of Service at the Kentucky FFA State Convention.

FFA members load up their buses and travel several hours to attend the state FFA convention but also bring their work boots along so that they can serve the Lexington community during their stay. Have you ever heard of any other group of high schoolers taking time out of their summer vacation to serve a community they don’t even live in?

The truth about FFA and agriculture education service

The author of the PETA article wants you to believe that FFA and agriculture education is only about raising livestock for meat.

That couldn’t be further from the truth.

A favorite saying among today’s agriculture teachers is “FFA isn’t cows, sows and plows anymore.”

Today’s agriculture classroom is about biotechnology, conservation and environmental issues, record keeping, public speaking and business principles.

Today’s FFA member spends just as many hours doing community service as they do practicing for any competition.

Today FFA and agriculture education are cultivating the next generation of agriculture leaders through a commitment to hands on learning, personal growth and living a life of service.

Sorry PETA, nothing about that seems “lame” to me.

DISCLAIMER: The opinions reflected in this post do not reflect the opinions of any of my Celeste Communications clients, past or present. Specifically, this post was not commissioned, compensated for or otherwise influenced in anyway by the Kentucky FFA Association or the National FFA Organization. All opinions expressed in this post are my own as a proud former FFA member.


5 Things to NEVER say to someone trying to buy a farm

This week marks 1 year since we visited the property we thought would be our forever farm.5 Things you should NEVER say to someone trying to buy their own farm

Every house shopping blog and TV show reminds you not to fall in love with a property, but in this case it was impossible.

The house was set up perfectly for a farm family, with a kitchen window that overlooked the pasture and a full bath connected to the mudroom. There was an old hay barn perfect to convert into a covered facility for treating sick calves and a workshop that would become my office/studio.

We really thought it was meant to be.

Our realtor thought it was destined to be ours.

We were all wrong.

Fast forward to today and we’re still squeezing into our tiny rental house in town, hoping each new farm that gets listed might be the one.

Farm shopping is an emotional roller coaster. Unlike buying a house in a subdivision, there aren’t hundreds of farms to choose from at any given time. Folks who are unfamiliar with farm life often make comments that they assume are helpful, but are actually quite hurtful for a young farm family to hear.

I’ve compiled a few of the not so helpful comments we’ve received over the past year, along with some I’ve heard from friends who are also in our shoes.

The next time you’re making small talk with someone trying desperately to buy their first farm, I hope these phrases won’t be a part of the conversation.

1. Why can’t you just farm with your parents?

When you ask this question, you’re prying into a very personal and often emotional situation.

In my case, its pretty black and white. My parents have day jobs, the farm is not their sole income. So obviously, if it isn’t supporting their family it can’t support a second family as well.

For many young farm families, however, their parents might be drawing their full income from the farm but have to break the news to their child that there just isn’t enough to go around. For a child who has grown up expecting to be the next generation in the family farm, this can be a heartbreaking and unexpected situation to find yourself in.

You also never know if a farm is struggling to stay afloat. A few years of bad weather or a barn/equipment fire can dramatically change the financial situation of a farm, making it impossible for a child to join the business. When a family’s farm is in jeopardy its not something they want to talk about, and frankly, its none of your business.

2. If it’s taking this long, you need a new realtor.

A realtor can’t just conjure up farms for sale. Generally, farms only go on the market for 2 reasons: a farmer dies and their children have no interest in farming or the farm went bankrupt. Which leaves us in the awkward situation of waiting for people in our own community to die or fail.

In our case, we chose a realtor who has a lot of experience working with farm sales. Since the supply of available farms is so low, we didn’t want our inexperience as buyers to jeopardize the process.

Our realtor is very knowledgeable and has offered us sound advice in some touchy situations (like trying to buy from an estate). She was also very honest with us about the fact that this process could easily take 18 months – 2 years.

3. Just buy a small farm for now and buy a bigger one later.

People are often confused by the fact that we are buying our forever farm in our 20’s. Yes, the average person buys multiple houses over the course of their lifetime but for farm families its a bit different.

When a farm family buys land they invest in it. We’ll build barns, put up fences, add facilities to care for sick animals. We’ll devote a lot of time and resources to improving the soil and grasses to make the best possible food for our livestock.

That’s not the sort of things you can box up and throw in a Uhaul in a few years!

While we might buy additional acreage on down the road, the foundation of our farm will be this purchase. God willing, it will be ours forever.

4. Have you asked [Big Farmer in your Community] if he’d sell some land to you?

In short, no. That’s just not how its done.

You just don’t ask someone to sell off a portion of their livelihood, let alone a farmer whose family has likely been farming that land for multiple generations.

Please for the love of all things holy, NEVER go ask some big farmer in your community to sell land to your nephew/cousin/friend who is trying to buy a farm.

Its incredibly rude and instead of helping your loved one, you’ve now put them in a very awkward situation with someone who they will likely need to have a good relationship with since the farming community is such a tight knit one.

5. You’re being too picky.

This one annoys me most of all. Assuming that because we are young we’re delusional and holding out for the holy grail of farms/houses is just insulting.

When someone shops for a house in a subdivision, their list of “musts” gets to include things like an attached garage or a master suite.

When you’re shopping for a farm, it goes a little more like this: “A minimum of X acres. A house with 3 bedrooms.” The end.

Available farms are so few and far between that we simply can’t put additional parameters on the search. The land becomes almost the only priority. We enter every house not to see if its the perfect one but to evaluate if we can make it work until we can afford to renovate it, since the majority of our budget will be invested in land.

So what should you say?

No one is asking you to fix the situation so don’t bother trying. Your friend is stuck in what probably feels like the longest wait of their life, all they need is your support along the way.

“You guys will be great farmers, the right place will come along before you know it.”

“I’m sorry this is taking so long, I know you’re eager to start farming.”

“I’ll keep an eye out and let you know if I hear of anything available.”

Keep it short and sweet. Show your support and let them know that you believe it will all work out, because there are some days that they need to be reminded that it will.

We have been so blessed to have families and friends who check in often to see how the search is going and remind us that God already knows every acre He will be entrusting us with, He just hasn’t led us to them yet.

We have faith that He’s teaching us something important during this waiting game. While I won’t pretend its fun, I know it will be worth it.

What should you do when you meet a tractor on the road?

What should you do when you meet a tractor on the road?Last week, Aaron mowed down the remnants of our 2015 garden. The dry cornstalks and dead bean bushes had been driving him crazy for weeks and he was thrilled to finally find time to bushhog them down.

Our tractor is housed in a barn about three miles away from our home, so I dropped Aaron off and he drove the tractor and bushhog home.

The majority of the trip is on two-lane back roads but for the first mile he has to drive on a four-lane highway that just happens to be one of the busiest in our county. Since it was a Sunday afternoon, traffic was heavy.

Seeing cars and semi-trucks fly past my husband on our small tractor makes me very nervous. Now that Lorelei’s carseat is forward facing, she could see it too. As we followed behind him in my SUV with hazard lights on (to help alert the other drivers of the slow moving tractor) she yelled “Hey car, slow down that’s my Daddy!”

I’m thankful that we only have to make that trip with the tractor a few times a year. For many of my farming friends, however, moving tractors on busy roads is a daily occurrence.

According to the The National Safety Council about one-third of fatal tractor accidents occur on public roads.

As my crop farming friends begin harvesting this fall, I thought this would be a good time to share some friendly reminders of what you should do when you meet a tractor on the road.

Slow down.

The first thing you should do when you see a tractor ahead of you is slow down.

Many tractors’ and combines’ top speeds are 20-25 mph. On a highway with a speed limit of 55 mph, this is much slower than you’re probably traveling so make sure to give yourself plenty of time to slow down.

Speed is far too often a factor in roadway accidents. By slowing down, you give yourself time to assess the situation and make safe choices.

Don’t get too close.

Riding 5 feet behind the tractor won’t make it go any faster, I promise, but it seems that many people don’t understand this concept.

You know what happens when you follow too closely behind a tractor? The driver is now focusing on you.

So in addition to operating their machinery (which is much more complicated than driving a car) and paying attention to oncoming traffic, they are now having to keep an eye on you. Instead of focusing on what they should be doing, they’re hoping you don’t get too close and rear end them or the planter, sprayer, grain cart, etc… they are pulling behind them.

You are distracting the tractor driver, so his/her ability to make safe driving decisions is being compromised. Plus, in the event of an accident, your vehicle is too close to the tractor to safely react in time.

Keep a safe distance and keep everyone safe.

NEVER cut in between an escort vehicle and the machinery.

Escort vehicles are normal cars/trucks that drive with their hazard lights on and sometimes flags to alert other motorists to the slow moving machinery in front of them.

They keep a safe distance from the machinery, therefore if you’re behind the escort, YOU are a safe distance behind the machinery.

Escort vehicles also help machinery make safe turns. Since tractors, combines, etc… aren’t able to turn as sharply as a car, an escort will often prevent traffic from passing in the other lane to ensure the machinery can make a wide turn safely.

Don’t pass until it is safe.

Farmers are well aware that being stuck behind a tractor is not fun. As the line of cars backs up behind a tractor, the driver is scanning what’s ahead, looking for a safe place to pull over and let traffic pass.

Sometimes the farmer or escort vehicle can see that there is no traffic coming in the oncoming lanes and will wave you around to pass.

When you do pass farm machinery, make sure you do so cautiously. Its not hard to pass a tractor that’s only going 25 mph. There is no reason that you should hit 70 mph while passing them.

NEVER pass machinery when it is turning!

Farm machinery has to make wide turns. Passing while they’re turning is incredibly dangerous.

Watch for signs of turning like blinkers on the tractor and hand signals from the tractor driver.

Keep in mind that sometimes farm machinery will turn off of the road and directly into a field. Just because you don’t see a driveway or road doesn’t mean that the blinker or hand signal is an error.

Be patient.

This one is likely the most important of all.

Farmers hate having to transport machinery on the road. Its a dangerous and nerve wracking part of their jobs but combines and tractors must be moved from one field to the next.

Like it or not, its a reality.

Driving that tractor is someone’s dad, mom, son or daughter. They’re your neighbors –  your child’s soccer coach, the family a few pews ahead of you in church on Sunday.

They’re trying to do their job and get there safely, just like you. A little patience and courtesy can go a long way in keeping us all safe.

Advice for my daughter’s generation on National Agriculture Day

Read any post on my blog and you’ll quickly realize that I think American agriculture is something worth celebrating.Advice for my daughter's generation on National Agriculture Day

So obviously, I had to do a post for National Agriculture Day!

When many bloggers write about Ag Day, they focus on celebrating all the wonderful things about agriculture today and challenge you to “thank a farmer.”

I’m always up for a pat on the back, who isn’t?

That’s not what this post is about, though.

This post is for the next generation of agriculturalists.

For the ones who’ll be celebrating National Ag Day 10-20 years from now, my daughter’s generation.

The kids who are playing with toy tractors and herding stuffed cattle. Whose favorite playground is a hay barn or a feed bin.

Someday this precious world of agriculture that your parents and grandparents (and maybe even generations before that) have loved and fought for will be yours.

You are the select few who will nurture, cultivate and care for the land and livestock.

With the passing of this baton comes greater challenges than any generation before you has ever known.

Today you are still learning to count, but someday your generation will have to learn how to feed 9 billion people.

You will likely have less farm land available to you, as cities and subdivisions pop up where crops used to grow and cattle used to graze.

Like most farm parents, I wonder if I am preparing you for the great task that will be set before you.

Will you be equipped with the tools to be successful individually in agriculture, let alone as an industry?

So I offer this advice to you; to my daughter, my friends’ children and their entire generation.

– Pour your heart and soul into 4-H and FFA

I firmly believe that 4-H and FFA are the greatest youth organizations in the world.

4-H and FFA are molding the next generation of agriculture to be leaders, advocates and servants. I’ve already written about what 4-H taught me and the impact FFA left on my life.

Whether you learn to give speeches, judge livestock or weld, the experiences you have in 4-H and FFA will better prepare you for a future in agriculture than any elementary or high school class work ever could.

– You will never be finished learning about agriculture

You may have a college degree in agriculture and your whole lifetime of farm experience under your belt, but you are never finished learning.

Agriculture is an ever changing world. There are constantly new technologies, new developments, new production methods.

Don’t be that farmer who refuses to change just because “That’s not how Daddy did it.” I promise, your Daddy and Mama would much prefer you innovate and succeed than slowly go out of business because you are stuck in your ways.

Go to conferences, classes and seminars. Read books and industry magazines. Seek the advice of experts. Research innovations, see if they would be a good fit for your farm and embrace change.

– Fight for agriculture

Share your experiences as an agriculturalist. Whether in person or online or in whatever form of communication your generation uses, find your own way to share your story.

Campaign and vote for politicians who defend the rights of family farmers. Lobby for legislation that protects the American food supply. Meet with local politicians and school board members. Invite local classes to visit your farm on field trips.

We are fighting today so that we can pass this amazing industry and huge responsibility on to you someday. Carry on the legacy and keep fighting the good fight.

– Even if you don’t return to the farm, stay connected to agriculture

Not every farm kid is destined to be a farmer. That doesn’t mean that the lessons you learned in agriculture won’t be an important part of your daily life.

If you are a parent, teach your children where food comes from and how it is produced.

If you are a teacher, make agriculture a part of your science lessons. If you are a doctor, care for your patients with the same dedication and selflessness that you once cared for your sick livestock.

No matter what, don’t ever forget the hard work and determination that was instilled in you on the farm.

Advice for my daughter’s generation on National Agriculture Day

After all, you, each and every farm kid across the country, are the most important thing we’re raising on our farms.

You are our life’s work. You are our legacy.

As I tuck my little farm girl into bed tonight, I’ll pray that I’m preparing her a little more each day to face the challenge and carry on the tradition for many more National Ag Days to come. If I had to guess, I’d bet your parents are doing the exact same thing.